Monday, June 6, 2011

How to Be Me

Everyone comes to the point where they ask themselves the first real important question. Unfortunatly for most of us, we don't ask the question as early in life as wewould have preferred. Ideally we would start at a very young age and build our life's profile as we grow and mature. Even though most of us thrash about with no real purpose for far too long, we always have the opportunity to begin the process of becoming the person we really aspire to become.

When faced with the question "Who am I"?, most of us tend to falter and sputter to define ourselve. Something I have learned about people who live ordered, consistent lives is that they follow a set of rules, a "code" of sorts. Rather than completing a complex equation by balancing issue, personality, situation and some sort of moral compass reading each time they are faced with a decision, they simply access the code! Sounds simple right? It is, but the development of a code that tells us where we stand on the almost unlimted situations we may find ourselves in is certainly anything but?

Today you need t commit to developing your "code". You have more than likely don most if not all of the research already. The hardest part is the realization that you will never again decide how to react to a situation. You have to believe in your code and give it the power over you. The hard part is that we all want to cheat now and again. Well then just build that into your code. I know this sounds really too simple yet incredibly complex at the same time. It actually is both. I will explain each step in the process in detail. Stay tuned...